Sunday, November 27, 2011

Babes

Tyler - Tanner - Everett - June



siblings aided in the propping of the photo


Doesn't get better than this
Thanksgiving was great.
We need to get all of the cousin's cousins born this year in one place at one time.
To have less than half was still great

Cousins, Cousins, Everywhere part2


Lindsey & Everett - Jen & Tanner - Laure & Tyler - Julie & June


Mackey - Michael, Marie - Julie, Blair - Jen, Eric - Lindsay, Everett -  Tyler, Laura, Robert
 The Illinois/Wisconsin contingent gathered together for a Saturday night dinner. Yes, we could have been at the BYU Basketball game , played here in town , but we forsook the hoops game for hanging out. I was going to take a picture in the basement but it looked like a bomb had gone off so i passed. The kids were having too much fun to be condemned by my camera. In the meantime it was calm for awhile in the kitchen so we took a couple  of photos. (Josh was with his  recouping girls  so they passed this round and were missed)

House Guests

We had wonderful visitors for the weekend

Jen Eric Tara,Tara, Tara Morgan Alex and Tanner







Julie Blair Eden Dean June Duncan

Gathering and Games

whether duck duck grey duck (read not goose)
or table chat it was all fun





Saturday, November 26, 2011

The dinner

So nobody does it better.
We had a glorious Thanksgiving feast
a day late but clearly not a dollar short

It starts with a great soup


followed by a great spread



then great company


there is always the kids table



and drop in visitors

JenErica

None of the boys were home on Thanksgiving yet the house was full of fun and love and noise. A more predictable Christensen thanksgiving visitor you might guess would be Matt and Honor but NO. To our delight Jen, Eric, Tara, Morgan, Alex and Tanner drove up from St Louis for the weekend. A party ensued.







Mackey is one part favorite oldest cousin
One part favorite youngest aunt
To the next generation
Mainly she is kind and fun.

Thanksgiving Tradition

Rindy mowed the lawn on Wednesday so what else could you expect on Thursday but a warm weather tradition of croquet. The kids, well they love Mac;and Eric demonstrated skills we weren't aware of.


The Perfect Pie

What else would you expect?

She brought her ingredients;
She brought her utensils;
She brought her apron;
She brought her "A" game;

This is what she delivered



Got to love Jen

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Let The Season Begin

There are many reasons to love Rindy and perhaps another post, another day, I might be inclined to list them all; but one of them is clearly her love of the season and ability to express it. Though it is a work in progress I couldn't resist taking a few photos and posting them. When I returned from work tonight the house smelled like Christmas, Pandora was playing Christmas, and the front porch looked like Christmas. Yes, the sights and sounds are returning thanks to Rindy. (And oddly, or maybe not so oddly, it made me miss my father) Nonetheless, the season is upon us, the door is open , drop by on the 24th for sure but anytime you can - we'll eat, we'll sing, we'll play a game in a festive setting.
Yes, yes, let The Season Begin.



Sunday, November 20, 2011

A Pianist in our midst

Annie is a good conversationalist and I enjoy sitting down and chatting with her. As fun, is asking her to play what she is currently working on in her piano studies. So upon arrival at Robert & Laura's tonight the first thing I did was to request a concert. I love listening to the piano. Few things are more delightful than sitting in our living room listening to Rindy play. So, I figure my contribution is to provide a willing and ready audience to those who work on their gift of playing. If no one ever asks how do they become performers. Anne delivers in spades. ( I really should make a mini video next time)


on a side-note - laura makes a great pizza

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Carlile Sighting

Finally an official Carlile sitting.
Evan has long been a well-loved next generation cousin and today he had flexibility in his schedule and was within a stone's throw of our home in Naperville and joined us for dinner. Jaycee and Whitney were no shows but we hope to entice them with food, lodging, shopping, and a concentration of cousins to make the trip up next time around. Business travel is not always a convenient time to make a visit, you come in to a town, work your day and barely have time to breathe, let alone the time and energy to visit. 


And so we welcomed Evan with open arms and invite a rapid return .
Its so delightful living where people of all types can drop by for awhile.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Stand In Holy Places

the world can not guarantee safety but the Lord can. yesterday in preparing a lesson on the subject of Standing in Holy Places I came across this video , which I quite enjoyed. We can find shelter in the storm.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

The world as we know it

Evan's ward sends out weekly emails with announcements and activities and the occasional article . This week their bishop sent this link to an article by President Hunter. He has always been an unsung hero in my book.  Before you commence on it, take your own temperature as to how you feel about your prospects for the future.  Assess your feelings again on the same subject, after you've finished reading.  I think you'll be amazed at the difference.

http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD&locale=0&sourceId=4949425e0848b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&hideNav=1


Enjoy the article and smile more this day

Friday, November 11, 2011

Great to be with a Friend

A great day
and a beautiful night
a best friend


Tuesday, November 8, 2011

When should you sing

How comfortable are you when your church service strays a trifle from the norm?
Does everything have to fit in a precise pattern for it to be "true"; for the "spirit to attend"?

Moroni 6:9 describes a pattern not followed in every ward, not experienced by every member, not expected to really be the way it is.

"And their meetings were conducted by the church after the manner of the workings of the Spirit, and by the power of the Holy Ghost; for as the power of the Holy Ghost led them whether to preach, or to exhort, or to pray, or to supplicate, or to sing, even so it was done."

My most memorable experiences with meetings so conducted have come on my mission, in Madrid, and again this Sunday. Drummondville, Quebec was a spectacular branch of the church; many of its founding members were steeped in catholic orthodoxy, cleric service, and transformational conversion experiences. Every Sunday was a delight, yet my favorites were those when we sat according to vocal part as if in a choir and the meeting after the sacrament portion, was 'open mike' so to speak. The branch president would read Moroni 6:9 then invite the congregants to sing, pray or speak as so prompted. The meetings were rich with the Spirit and edifying to all. Unexpected yes, inappropriate no. Mainstream don't think so.

Spin forward decades and I am conducting a baptism in Barrio Cinco in Madrid. A young American 8=year old girl expat and a twenty something Nigerian are both being baptized. Following the baptisms, but still during the service, our most long-standing Nigerian member asks me if he could lead the congregation in a welcoming hymn of sorts. Expecting some African tune, I reflect and quickly ponder and say, yes. I was a bit surprised, and in my mind's eye could see my father squirming, as something more akin to a revivalist spiritual tune called "Jesus has conquered Satan, oh-yeah" is joyously celebratorially sung - with the spirit attending. Unexpected yes,inappropriate no. Mainstream don't think so.

This Sunday in testimony meeting, in the branch we were visiting, one senior couple was leaving having served six months, another arriving. An elderly blind member got up bore his testimony, gave a simple tribute to the departing couple, then sang them a spirit filled departing song. Unexpected yes,inappropriate no. Mainstream don't think so.

Each of the three was - Unexpected, appropriate and not quite mainstream. Two were relatively small branches, one was basically an expat unit. Part of the wonder of the gospel is the universality of the experience, the commonality of the worship experience where ere you might be, the immediate comfort found in a new or different to you congregation. Part of the richness of the gospel is the diversity of gifts, of the guidance of the spirit, of the uniqueness of each congregation in following the spirit

When should you sing?
In the words of Raffi - you got a sing when the spirit says sing.

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Dreams

Make Your Dreams Bigger Than Your Memories
Make Your Dreams Bigger Than Your Memories
This was a quote used in a sales meeting at work the other day. The woman using it spoke in context of driving better sales operationally and through better training. I liked the quote enough I immediately tweeted it. Then tonight looked it up. I found it to be the title of a faith-abased book by Terri Savelle Foy, where her focus is http://www.terri.com/store/products/36-make-your-dreams-bigger-than-your-memories.aspx Don't let your past keep you from your future. The essence of which life might have been bad and tough but you can yet be redeemed.

Interestingly, in hearing the phrase i had a different thought strike me.
I thought of the return missionary whose two years were the best of his life and never rises higher; of the high school jock who never has another highlight or prom was their best date. These are wonderful memories;these are life highlights BUT not the stopping point.

Life needs to be a continual rich experience. We need to live forward. We need to create new memories. We always need hope and goals and dreams. New challenges to overcome, new dreams. So yes I concur
Make Your Dreams Bigger Than Your Memories