Wednesday, April 25, 2012

The Commencement

For me at least there is a subtle distinction between, the convocation, the graduation, the awarding of degrees, and the walk. Who knows exactly which is which. Nonetheless, after the Degree Awarding Ceremony we all walked over to the Marriott Center for the Convocation.
This entailed the graduates walking into the stadium.
Stu & Ev

Brig in the background

Then filing into the stadium.
Elder Oaks

Then the speeches.
Then mingling afterward.




The program told the story of the day. Brigham was in fact in the program and merits the kudos and accolades for the accomplishment. Brigham is a gifted student and an incredibly diligent and accomplished doer. Our respect and congratulations go to him as he finished this chapter of his education. Call him Master Wilson.






Monday, April 23, 2012

The Gathering

Number One indeed


It wasn't official
It had no standing
It was done in 24 minutes

It was the best graduation you could image, and then some. Brigham orchestrated, administered and created the event. He had help from several friends to pull it off and the charm of Evan for it to succeed.

Evan graduated from Armstrong High School in 2007 and felt that he like his brothers before should head out west to Brigham Young University. We thought it was risky but a manageable risk; and determined it would be a measured success if he lasted - a day - a week - a month. Little did we imagine at the time that five years later (with a year break for 3-month full-time mission and moving to Chicago); that we would need a graduation exercise to culminate the experience. A capstone of acknowledgment and gratitude.

There were many people who's combined efforts created the success. If I named them all- first the list would be too long, second I would surely forget someone who unbeknownst to us - sat with him at lunch, walked with him, talked with him, danced with him.- well you get the picture I would not want to offend through omission.

A few require special note:
  • John & TJ his uncle and aunt who live in Roy and were the ever present safety net if needed, the shelter in a storm, and always good for a warm bed and a great meal
  • Parker, his loving younger brother, who pushed and prodded and supported Evan during his own freshman year at BYU
  • Blair, Julie and Mackey who from afar encouraged and loved
  • Stu Jackson, an incredible friend forever, a patient long-suffering and enduring friend, and a great room-mate for two-years
  • Brigham, oh Brigham, the depth of our appreciation is ineffable.What a brother, what a friend. (I guess I'll devote a separate post to him to try and capture it)

Evan worked, he volunteered, he attended classes, he dated, he danced, he worked in and attended the Temple regularly, he played sports, he had Ward callings, he went to Y athletic contests, collected BYU spirit wear, he skied, went to cousin dinners, had road trips to San Diego, San Francisco, the Grand Canyon, and beyond. Figured out how to do laundry, survival eating skills, negotiated a bus, how to get to and from campus, kept his own schedule and checked in appropriately, paid bills with a debit card, calculated a tip (usually on a phone call with me while he was at the restaurant), did his homework, watched his favorite dvds, sang his favorite songs (you could always find him by listening to his chanteur voice with headphones on- singing along with gusto). Gusto, yes that is the word I've been looking for, he lived his BYU life with gusto. He flourished.

Thanks to the many known and unknown who helped. The attending angels seen and unseen both get thanks. The party Thursday was as much for them as it was for Evan.

So back to the party, or should we say graduation ceremony. Evan felt the need to march across a stage and gather a diploma - Brigham delivered said program and event.
Approximately 100 people gathered in the lovely conference room in the Student Athletic building. A dozen or so came in cap and gown and accompanied Evan in the entrance march to Pomp & Circumstances . The program flowed as noted in the program in the earlier blog posting. It was great.

Thank you to all who, spoke, performed, marched, attended. It stayed on schedule as a 23 minute program followed by Triffle and chit chat. Was the highlight the attendance of Cosmo? being able to thank everyone? the musical number? the speech? No once again it was seeing the delight and joy on Evan's face. or was it the JOY in my and Rindy's heart as we once again recognized the abundant tender mercies of the Lord in fulfilling dreams we dared not dream 24 + years ago when Evan was born. But it is joy that defies description. The text book definition of the emotion: of great delight or happiness caused by something exceptionally good or satisfying; keen pleasure; elation. JOY constitutes something that is tangible as well as intangible - the heart is full and frequently the eyes as well. "When the Lord is present in our lives, His joy brings us great joy and with grateful hearts, our thanks is expressed." Evan's life brings us closer to the Lord. And so we say thanks.


Us

Evan getting diploma going thru the line

Stu & Ally - representing all the friends

Cosmo in queue

Quinn's representing all those in Mn & IL who support

Ev

the room slowly filling

Lu - Eleanor - Liz representing all the girls in Ev's life

Matt Smith representing all at BYU who helped along the way












Sunday, April 22, 2012

The Documents

To be official for anything you have to be able to produce the proper documentation to prove the existence of an experience. This last week marked the culmination of Evan's BYU adventure  over the past five years. And the documents acknowledge a great run. The documents lead to and cover the event for which there will be a subsequent post.

1. The Invitation : sent by email and posted on Facebook
Invitation

2. The Program : an outline of the shortest, full-fledged, top-to-bottom quality convocation you could imagine

Program

3,  The Diplomas : custom crafted for the" graduate" and all the attendees. They captured the essence of the occasion: recognition of what Evan has been able to do and extreme gratitude and appreciation to all those who enabled, guided, assisted, and watched over Evan's success.

All attendees reviewed one and even some who did not attend - click on the image to read the script




the unofficial documentation - click on image to read
 


Program content, orchestration, and execution - Brigham
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Document layout and design - Lauren Woodmansee &  Brigham

Friday, April 20, 2012

The Music

I should have recorded more of the event but forgot my phone had that function until late in the game. I did manage to capture a segment of Mariah's beautiful singing. Thanks Mariah




Thursday, April 19, 2012

Empathy

Today as I read this article I was grateful for the empathy of others


Arianna Huffington On The Rise Of Empathy In America
WRITTEN BY: Arianna Huffington
The only way to bring the world out of the recession and onto a better track is for everyone to tap into a collective sense of responsibility toward each other.
 
Last month, I spent a fascinating couple of days at the Skoll World Forum on Social Entrepreneurship in Oxford, England. It was exhilarating--and deeply moving--to hear example after example of social entrepreneurs making quantifiable improvements in lives all around the world. As Stephan Chambers, chairman of the Skoll Centre, put it: "I have cried every day this week. Remember as I tell you this, that I’m male. And British. And from Oxford." I actually cried every hour. But, remember, I’m female. And Greek. And from Cambridge.


This post is part of a series on the future of service in America, in conjunction with Catchafire.
It was a reminder that the innovation, passion, and empathy on display at Skoll transcend gender, politics, geography and education. Service is in the zeitgeist. Now, zeitgeist is a German word almost untranslatable in English, but it does exist as a concept. And when individuals and businesses tap into it, they have the wind at their back.

This trend for giving back provides a stark relief for the uninspiring spirit of the 2012 election. On a national level, we’re paralyzed and polarized. Politicians are trying to use our ongoing financial crisis to roll back society to the days before safety net programs provided the essential services that helped grow the American middle class. Our leaders are engaged in misguided debates about budget cuts instead of how to spur growth. And there is a widespread refusal, especially in the media, to acknowledge that the crises we are facing go beyond the obsolete dichotomy of left versus right.

Service is in the zeitgeist.
Pushing back against the failures of our leaders and institutions--and the resulting lack of trust--is a growing movement of people and organizations taking the initiative to share, engage, connect, solve problems, and demand some control over their future. While we wait for our leaders to act, thousands are looking at the leader in the mirror and taking action.

We see this in Jennifer Pahlka, founder of Code for America, which connects young tech professionals with the needs of city governments. And Charles Best, founder of DonorsChoose, which connects donors to underprivileged schools. There’s Ben Berkowitz, who launched SeeClickFix, the site that connects people with non-emergency problems in their neighborhoods--such as a broken street lamp or potholed road--to others who can chime in with solutions. And Jacqueline Novogratz, founder of Acumen Fund, which combines financial expertise with empathy, investing in startups around the world that help improve the lives of people unable to do so on their own.

With unemployment still over 8%, we have more ingenuity, energy, spirit, and expertise than we have jobs--and definitely more time on our hands. We’ve seen individuals using that time to tap into the all-American barn-raising spirit to "widen the circle of our concern," as President Obama said in his speech responding to the shooting of then-Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords.

"We are on the cusp of an epic shift," wrote Jeremy Rifkin in his 2010 book The Empathic Civilization. "The Age of Reason is being eclipsed by the Age of Empathy." He makes the case that as technology is increasingly connecting us to one another, we need to understand what the goal of all this connectivity is, and allow humanity to see itself as an extended family living in an interconnected world. The innovators I’ve listed, along with countless others, are the drivers of that worldview.

So, if you’ve forgotten Physics 101, here’s a quick refresher. To a physicist, a critical mass is the amount of radioactive material that must be present for a nuclear reaction to become self-sustaining. For the service movement a critical mass is when the service habit hits enough people so that it can begin to spread spontaneously around the country. Think of it as an outbreak of a positive infection. And everyone is a carrier. What we need to do is go out and carry this positive infection, so that together we can reach that critical mass.


ARIANNA HUFFINGTON
Arianna is the president and editor-in-chief of the Huffington Post Media Group. Continued

Monday, April 9, 2012

Fire Drill

As spring weather arrives so do the office building annual fire and tornado drills. Loud shrill alarms, obnoxious volunteers herding the masses along, five flights of stairs down so you don't get trapped in the elevator. So today the alarm went off and we trudged down the stairs and out the doors queueing up in the  parking lot. Needed a coat - didn't have one, with a steady, stiff breeze.

So as we complained we noticed real smoke circling the building. As it turns out no drill - real thing. Our building landscape uses mulch and mulch chips. Apparently someone walking into the building flipped their 'almost ' finished cigarette into the weeds. Unfortunately, dry conditions, hot wind, and flame combine to form fire.

No one hurt.
No major damage.
Just remember to leave the building next time you think its just a drill - it just might be real!

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Temple Visit

dale sally tim rindy
We drove down to Kansas City, MO to visit my sister Sally, her husband Dale and to visit the Kansas City Temple Open House. I've been to a number of them including: Provo, Chicago, Nauvoo, St Paul; and this did not disappoint it was a peaceful, spiritual, edifying visit to the  Temple; and one in which Mackey could share with us.


"The temple is the house of the Lord. The basis for every temple ordinance and covenant…is the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Every activity, every lesson, all we do in the Church, point to the Lord and His holy house."
—Russell M. Nelson



"I know your lives are busy. I know that you have much to do. But I make you a promise that if you will go to the house of the Lord, you will be blessed; life will be better for you."
—Gordon B. Hinckley


We will receive inspiration sufficient for the challenges of life."
—Boyd K. Packer












"In a world filled with chaos, conflict and challenge the Temple is a safe haven. It is an island of peace and sweetness which brings calm to our spirit and clarity to our souls. When the clouds gather it brings the ray of hope; when things are well it amplifies the joy. Whether during an open house like this weekend; or with a youth baptismal trip, or Wednesday night when I serve in the Chicago Temple, or sitting next to my Rindy while attending the Temple together - The Temple is the House of God, a place of solace, guidance, and peace. Come join us at the Temple and feel the difference it makes.

—Tim 









kansas city temple
kansas city temple

mac tim rindy


Weekend Road Trip

Rindy Mac Sally Dale


The Church built a new Temple in Kansas City, and was hosting an open house tour this week; Mackey was little when we last had the opportunity to tour a temple during its open house - so we went. 


SJ and Dale live in Kansas City, and were actually in town, and our great hosts; and we rarely are in the same place together - so we went. 


It was Easter weekend and the weather was fresh but sunny; the roads were clear - so we went.


Saturday morning Dale & I visited the bomb squad





Sally & Mac dyed eggs







We ate lunch at Arthur Bryant's - our fav restaurant in KC



drove thru st louis on way home - ate at cousin Blair Lofgreen

Sunday Easter service delightful 
Temple open house divine
Staying with Sj and Dale - priceless

Friday, April 6, 2012

Old favorites

Reading is a delight, an open-door,an education, and occasionally an escape. Sharing, books, reading lists, new titles, a turn of a phrase, a meaningful quote brings life to the written word.
Mainly these days I read business books, theology books, and rarely, rarely diversionary books. So for this past spring break I chose to re-read a couple of old favorites that my dad and I had jointly read in days gone by. Tritely one could describe them as simple murder mysteries, or perhaps historic fiction -but nonetheless, entertaining diversionary books.

1 Hunting Badger - by Tony Hillerman
2. An Excellent Mystery - by Ellis Peters
3. The Prague Cemetery - by Umberto Eco

1. One of the better of his genre. A series I enjoyed and fun to revisit
(The marvelous Hunting Badger is Tony Hillerman's 14th novel featuring Navajo tribal police officers Joe Leaphorn and Jim Chee.)







2. Had forgotten how much I liked the middle-ages britain setting for this amiable sleuth, predictable, yet satisfying for its purposes
(AN EXCELLENT MYSTERY by Ellis Peters is just that an excellent mystery. Set in 12th Century Britain following the destruction of the Abbey of Hyde Meade an ailing monk and his companion arrive at Shrewsberry seeking shelter.)










3. Expected the most and truly got the least. Eco has written some well-crafted literature, some compelling novels, and thoughtful essays. This was none of that. Took a significant time commitment to finally track with him and by the time I did I wasn't sure I had gotten to where I wanted to go - and knew that I had to step in the mud to get there by the time I did.It is an interesting book in that it is based on a true account of a fictional piece that was/is historically significant - The protocols of the elders of Zion .
(  Nineteenth-century Europe, from Turin to Prague to Paris, abounds with the ghastly and the mysterious. Conspiracies rule history.)


Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Lego

some people have an eye for lego
some people don't

peter does



Sunday, April 1, 2012

Saturday Night

General Priesthood meeting on Saturday night is meant to be spent with your sons. I miss attending with my dad; and the few times I have attended one by myself I have felt lonely indeed. So it was easy to respond to Blair's invitation to drive up to Watertown and attend General Priesthood with him at the Lake Mills Chapel.

We stayed the night and enjoyed spending Sunday morning with Julie, Blair and the gang.

Eden - just happy

Blair & June

June - jumping and playing

conference

Come listen to living prophets

Sunday at 11 am and 3pm cst