Monday, August 31, 2009

Bitter Sweet Y


Ultimately, I am incredibly grateful for the Y and all that it has and does contribute to my family; but this time of year it is a two-edge sword, the separation is a loaded emotion. Rindy hopped in the Saab and drove Evan and Brigham back to Cougar land; Brigham to start his senior year in mathematics and economics, while Evan returns to his own unique BYU experience.

Evan will live with Brigham all the while working at the Wilkinson Center, auditing a few classes, volunteering in the Athletic department and live life large off campus. We cherish the growth but miss them desperately - GO COUGARS

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Grilled Peach


speaking of the delight called summer peaches -
we had dinner over at laura and robert's tonight and for dessert we devoured grilled peaches with ice cream; a new grillable for me which was warm, flavorful, sweet, and accompanied by ice cream so you know it had to be good.

Parker and I enjoyed a great meal - Robert's burgers mmmmm; and Laura's brazilian lemonade an additional palate pleaser. Parker enjoyed reading to Anne and Peter while we chatted.

We thoroughly enjoy having them as such close neighbors.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Seeking Greater Knowlege




An old scripture came to me as instruction in a new way this past week. It is found in Abraham 1:1-2. As I was taught that Evan being a worthy follower could have the opportunity for greater knowledge.

"I, Abraham, saw that it was needful for me to obtain another place of residence; And, finding there was greater happiness and peace and rest for me, I sought for the blessings of the fathers, and the right whereunto I should be ordained to administer the same; having been myself a follower of righteousness, desiring also to be one who possessed great knowledge, and to be a greater follower of righteousness, and to possess a greater knowledge, and to be a father of many nations, a prince of peace, and desiring to receive instructions, and to keep the commandments of God, I became a rightful heir"


What a wonderful day. Very grateful for a multitude of little things and eternal things; and the opportunity for us all to seek greater knowledge.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Foiled Cupcakes





Foiled Cupcakes - a local naperville company - has been nominated for the American Express/NBC Universal/iVillage Shine A Light award for small businesses that inspire their communities.

They require a minimum of 50 "endorsements," or people who are willing to say, "Yep. They've inspired us."

If you could take a few minutes to register (top right corner) and click "endorse" for Foiled Cupcakes, it would be appreciated!
Here's the link: http://bit.ly/6LM06

I've tasted their work it's incredible.

Thursday, August 20, 2009




I finished an interesting and compelling read: The Zoo Keeper's Wife by Diane Ackerman. The essence of the story is a Zookeepr, his wife and cohorts employ the zoo over which they have stewardship as a haven, hiding post and transitional stage for those persecuted and hunted by the Germans during the war - be they human or animal.

" rescuers tended to be decisive, fast-thinking, risk-taking, independent, adventurous, open-hearted, rebellious and unusually flexible - able to switch plans, abandon habits, or change ingrained routines at a moments notice" are words used to describe rescuers but I find it lacking the descriptors that must also be included: charitable, loving, kind, sacrificing.

Beyond the courage of Jan and Antonia, I was intrigued by the story of Nazi Germany's obsession with prehistoric animals, a forest primeval and an ideology that embraced attempting to restore an historic Germanic environment and animals. Consistent with other Nazi philosophy of trying to rewrite the genetic code of the entire planet, but unexamined by me prior to this reading.

Monday, August 17, 2009

BYU TV


So for some reason this morning I was searching on BYUTV looking for content. As i successfully found a broadcast of The Spoken Word, that was in fact my goal, but imagine my surprize to find my brother Paul. His interview can be found at BYU.TV - the tab is BYU Original Productions - the folder Making Your Own Road:Lessons in Entrepreneurship - Paul Wilson Secretshopper.com. Congrats to Paul.

Saturday, August 15, 2009

What good comes from Utah



Parker having returned from a month long StarTalk Chinese language camp at BYU offered great insight today as he observed there were at least two great things from Utah:
1) his mom
2) an artic circle Lime Rickey

Such wisdom in one so young.

Temple Prep



I have been considering the Temple as we discuss and work preparing Evan to enter therein for his own endowments. He has gone through the old and new versions of Temple preparation classes; he has gone and participated in that which he already can; we have pondered and prayed; and wee have discussed with others. In the process two conversations have struck me most profoundly, one with my father and one with the bishop.

First as to father. He and I were discussing thoughts on the ordinances and he commented: “ As I have aged in recent years many things have left me, however, the temple has never left me”. It harkened me to several writings one from Elder Bednar: The issue is not going to or through the temple; rather, the issue is having in our hearts the spirit, the covenants, and the ordinances of the Lord’s house.

Another that predates that by Elder Maxwell: They may even pass through our holy temples, but, alas, they do not let the holy temples pass through them.


Father has the had the temple pass through him and as such it has changed and filled his heart, and has not left him. Though his age and health precludes regular attendance at this point, the temple is ever with him. He has “his tent facing the Temple” and has made it central to his learnings and personal revelation. Nibley proposes that this is our objective individually and collectively as societies. Civilization is hierocentric, centered around the holy point of the temple. The temple was certainly the center of things in Babylonia, in Egypt, in Greece—wherever you go. This was certainly so in pioneer Utah. This pattern descended, of course, from ancient times to the Latter-day Saint church. He goes on to explain how it is the wellspring of all learning. And clearly the proliferation of Temples in our day would reinforce his thinking.

This latter point was center to my discussion with my Bishop; I was concerned if Evan had sufficient mental capacity to grasp the temple. He spoke of his relative unlearned state as a 19 year old when he first attended, and how repetition and time have been great teachers and expanders of his understanding. Nibley speaks that: Ordinances are not the fullness of the gospel. Going to the temple is like entering into a laboratory to confirm what you have already learned in the classroom and from the text. The fullness of the gospel is the understanding of what the plan is all about—the knowledge necessary to salvation. You know the whys and wherefores; for the fullness of the gospel you go to Nephi, to Alma, to Moroni. Then you will enter into the lab, but not in total ignorance.

That Evan will learn similarly through repetition and time is certain – but – the Lord’s greatest concern for any who go to the temple is not their understanding but their worthiness. That Evan is worthy is the question and central to ability to attend. That question of worthiness is what should be most central to our daily lives and that such worthiness is our primary goal in striving to return to Heavenly Father.

(Dad and I then spoke of sealing sessions back in his day, of polish families waiting to be dealt with as families and not inventory – another story for another day)

Thursday, August 13, 2009

River or Lake


The nature of the body of water should not limit the enjoyment.

Our bishop graciously shared his jet skis with our group of 10 boys as we drove Wednesday night to Morris, Illinois to access an area on the Illinois River conducive to personal water craft. I must admit it is easier driving two minutes in any diection to a lake in mn than 45 minutes to a good access point here - but at the end water is water, playing is playing, and boys are happy.The temperature was great, the water traffic light, no bugs, and the boys jazzed. There is much more up and down than going in circles but at the end of the night its all good.

Sunday, August 9, 2009

National Geographic Moment




National Geographic Moments
I love them, I look for them, I define many highlights by them.
And so, it candor, it has been one of the difficulties of moving has been to forgo so many of them, and their regularity through life in Chicago.

Imagine delight when returning from a church meeting Brigham hastens me to look on our deck attached to the kitchen and see the photoed visitor. Not only did he pose, but he preened, he screeched out, he stretched and he stayed perched for near a half hour.

It was grand

Generational Friendship


>Rare is the friendship indeed that crosses over multiple generations – that is the unique relationship I have enjoyed with William B. Oelkers. Bill died unexpectedly Thursday in his home. I’ve known Bill forever. We went to scout camp together, played softball together, hung with the guys together and have always stayed connected; he even having served with his son Trent as our home teacher. Other than Rindy he is the one person who can call me Timmy without it bothering me.


Bill’s father was a dear friend of my father’s; having served as a counselor to my dad both in a bishopric and a stake presidency. His dad was a coach of mine as a young man and Lou Oelkers also died before his time a close friend to my dad till the end. Bill grew into a friendship with my dad. Bill was always a big supporter but my dad would also claim and clearly claim Bill as a friend. More so in later years as Bill would act as a realtor and confidant; and visit my father and mother. Bill is also a dear and valued friend of my children. I think Parker lays claim on the closest relationship. Bill taught Parker’s Sunday school class and the guys loved him. Bill is non-judgmental and accepts a teenager for what he is, Bill is candid in what he likes and dislikes without any political correctness in and about any subject including the church. His total genuine nature and loved unfeigned endeared him to youth.


And so with the passing of Bill - tears have come to my dad, tears have come to me, and tears have come to my children over the loss of a generational and dearly loved friend.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Perfection



On July 23, 2009: Mark Buehrle throws perfect game for the Chicago Whitesox. A by the numbers, very impressive accomplishment. How is perfection defined: 27 batters up and subsequently 27 retired. No walks, no runners on base, no runs scored. Of those 27 outs only 6 of them were strike-outs and that is where the definition of perfection becomes more interesting. Much has been made of the defensive substitution by Ozzie Guillenin the 9th inning putting Dewayne Wise into the outfield. And what happens, a tremendous game saving play, literally reaching over the fence and stealing away a certain home run, though after a bobble and near drop. Theatrics, drama, ESPN highlight.

Truth be told there were 21 times during the game where the opposing team hit the ball onto the playing field. 21 times when a defensive player had to make a play, interact with the ball in play, and force the out. Perfection was in fact a collective activity. Buehrle will be the one who makes the hall of fame but he would never get there without the other 9 players who played that night and the coaches.

Christ said:"Be ye therefor perfect even as I and your Father in heaven are perfect" Just as hard of an expectation as you or I throwing a perfect game. Interestingly the Greek translation defines perfect as
"complete, finished, fully developed". Nonetheless, the challenge is there - how are we do perform? We are there coached by a loving Father & Son; we have a family & friends as team mates; we have an atonement for when we bobble and have near misses.

An incredible expectations but we have incredible gifts to help us to at least strive.



Saturday, August 1, 2009

Day Two






Belay

Belay on

Climb

Climb on

What a beautiful place - I do love so much of Wisconsin and being outdoors.
As noted yesterday , a great group of guys. It rained at night but was clear in the morning with warm not hot weather, gentle breeze.

An aggressive hike out of the valley bottom up to where the rock walls were left by the ice-age glaciers. It was like a stair-master workout quite the knee exercise. We had hired guides from Northwest passage outfitters, they were great and adapted well to the groups strengths and abilities. We spent the day climbing and repelling, the later which proved more intimidating to several in the group, though all did it.

We had an adventure weekend