Monday, December 16, 2019

Insights Russell M Nelson

Insights from a prophets life.
Russell m Nelson
By Sheri Dew

Not to be read as a novel
Not to be read as a biography
Not to be read as a memoir tell-all

Sheri Dew presents the prophet as an ordinary man. Which is an impossibility . How do you put under a barrel and hide the light of someone who  can:
- speak Spanish and Chinese over the pulpit
- can still accompany a soloist on the piano
- can dissect a scripture
- invented heart transplant methodology
- is  a heart surgeon

For goodness sake’s there’s nothing normal about him

 And then with that in mind what looks like an interesting collection of stories and notes regarding his life his ministry his service his family. Because he plays such a significant  role in the church at some point trying to understand him.  I enjoyed the reading. Not a great book but what a great man in so many ways . 

Friday, August 16, 2019

No Great Mischief. Alistair MacLeod


No Great Mischief. Alistair MacLeod

Celtic is subgroup of the Indo-European language family. Gaelic is a language belonging to this group. To be more precise, Gaelic actually refers to a group of three close related Insular Celtic languages: Irish, Scottish Gaelic, and Manx.
And others would argue that the British ethnicities of English, Welsh and Scottish are therefore clearly distinct from Gaelic Irish, however they do all fall into a wider “Anglo-Celtic” ethnogenetic supergroup.
My favorite English -based  language experience occurred in London when I lived in Madrid and worked for John Ryan. I had been trying to land a London-based client and this looked like the opportunity. It was a multi-national bank located through-out Great Britain. The kick-off meeting was attended by a dozen regional bankers,  couple of guys from  corporate, and my two assistants;  one who was himself a brit and the other from MN.  We sat at a round conference table and the participants were energized and engaged and soon realized we had a very real linguistics issue.  With my Spanish clients they knew it was a second language and they were very patient with me and supported and enabled my getting eye contact to facilitate, my reading lips, them speaking distinctly and me carefully following the conversation. Not so easy this day in London.
"Dialects are linguistic varieties which may differ in pronunciation, vocabulary, spelling and grammar. ... The major native dialects of English are often divided by linguists into three general categories: the British Isles dialects, those of North America, and those of Australasia.”
The combination of differences in pronunciation and use of local words may make some English dialects almost unintelligible to speakers from other regions. This WAS happening to me.  There is a discernible difference between an accent and a dialect. An accent is “a way of pronouncing a language.” This is interesting because it means that everyone in the world, no matter the language, has an accent. To not have an accent means to not pronounce anything at all. So BAH to those Utah California  Minnesotan who claim to have none . A dialect is “a particular form of language which is peculiar to a specific region or social group”. So between, dialect and accent, there are myriad variability. How many English dialects are there that are recognizable from one another?  Specifically, the language experts declare there are 160 distinct English dialects throughout the world; England has the most amount of distinct dialects with 29 different ones (not including dialects from Wales, Scotland, Northern Ireland, Man, or the Channel Islands). My friends and I counted 15 present in our conference room; of which I could readily understand perhaps 9. The resulting cacophony lost me - I had been taking notes but begged off to my assistant and had him take charge of note taking because he could understand most everyone. It was a great lesson to me that day about listening, understanding differences, and how what seemed to be the same, could vastly differ.

Back to the book. I wasn’t enjoying it to begin with with as it was feeling too morose and burdened with painful family anxieties encumbered with trying to lift me by those same notions of family.  There’s probably more levity in the book than I could catch on to, but the story grew on me and as it did, ultimately became hard to putdown. Loyal dogs? Anti-Quebec characters? Perhaps not my favorite themes; nonetheless a great read of a hard scrabble life of a disrupted group from the Scottish Highlands who mix with other French and some English Canadians doing whatever work they can.

 The motif for the humans is that the past is always relevant to the present moment. And, as with all family history, the novel is laced with tragedy and death.




Wednesday, July 24, 2019

A Further Lapse

CURRENT BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS

A friend requested my current recommended book list. Le VOILA-perhaps  others will offer you better ideas - but I’ve read each of these and they all left me better for having done so. 

Always eat left-handed by Trohit Bhargava - call it self help; call it office and life hacks; call it a guy I had heard offers a quick read 

The Winter Soldier by Daniel Mason - read this before you go to Budapest- it is happy/ sad novel set in WWI-powerful prose that induces brain stretching 

The Space Barons  by Christian Devonport- insight into today’s race to space. These guys are rich, these guys are powerful, their influence
multiplying . 

The Rent Collector by Camron Wright  - set in the municipal dump in Cambodia it revolves around  the lingering ravages of war, humanity, and the uplifting power of the written word .

Between the World and Me by Ta–Nehisi Coates because if I don’t try to understand race relations better how can I expect others to try - It is written as a letter to the author's teenage son about the feelings, symbolism, and realities associated with being Black in the United States.

What have you read and enjoyed
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Becoming  by Michelle Obama.  Warm, wise, and revelatory, Becoming is the personal reckoning of a woman of soul and substance who has steadily defied expectations—and whose story inspires us to do the same. She is strong, a great role-model of many character attributes. She is someone  would enjoy meeting had I the opportunity. 

You are not so smart by David Mcraney
The book, based off of a popular blog of the same name, helps orient us towards the blind spots and the hidden assumptions of our day-to-day lives, while using humor to explain our sometimes puzzling behavior

He asserts that there’s a little that we do know but our brains merrily keep writing a script that may or may not resemble the facts.

Sunday, July 21, 2019

A lapse in thinking

I’ve fallen further  behind in  even completing the brief reviews I had been doing. The typing takes forever and I’m not as thoughtful as I once was. I continue to delight in reading and pondering what is there to learn from the writers. It succeeds in actively engaging me  and provide a growth opportunity. I am trying anew to put a smattering down to acknowledge that I’m  still here.

So...
The Witch by Roald Dahl
The Tim Wilson and Eden Elaine book club read, met and discussed the following discussion guide questions Tim .  Both of us enjoyed revisiting this classic !

  • Should children have to Bath
  • What would you do if Taft was turned into a mouse
  • What did you think of people getting fried
  • What would you do if a mouse ran up your leg
  • What do you find interesting about the comparative  life span of a mouse and the life span of a grand parent. 

Back of the napkin by Dan Roam  
The premise is simple: anybody with a pen and a scrap of paper can use visual thinking to work through complex business ideas. He demonstrates solving complex problems in unexpected ways, and dramatically improve your ability to share your insights.
I find that successful storytelling and/ or design is in-part dependent that you have a simple way to develop and then in turn share your insights.


The Great Believers - Rebecca Makkai
I read the first 50-100  pages bailed on it . 

Zen Master Raven 
the teachings of a wise old bird by Robert Aitken

A collection of Zen teaching stories. Consumed as morsels given snippets of time during which one can consume. It fills its purpose but not profoundly. There are better books that take you down the path with more style and grace.


Thursday, June 27, 2019

The Book Shop on the Shore by Jennie Colgen

The book shop on the shore by Jennie Colgen

So who is recommending me books these days? I think because of the limited range of my understanding of hoopla as a  content provider, I am found picking books way beyond my norm. . It was a digital download since I wasn’t checking out anymore from my local library as we’re moving. At the end of the digital book I read the following tributes:
Chick lit with an ethical kick
“A quirky tale of love work and the meaning of life
A smart witty love story.”



  1. All which are true. I enjoyed the book – don’t tell.

Thursday, October 4, 2018

The checklist manifesto By Atul Gawandeef

The Checklist Manifesto

By Atul Gawandeef


I enjoy living near a library for on a rainy weekend, or a sunny day on the beach, you can grab a book and learn something new. This weekend I picked up The Checklist Manifesto. It's a quick read but an interesting read. It has a few insights that might be worthwhile - some gleaned from reviews. The book focuses on usage of checklists in relation to a problem that afflicts virtually every aspect of the modern world – how professionals deal with the increasing complexity of their responsibilities  of daily and professional life

Gawande suggests that people tend to fail for two main reasons. The first is ignorance – having only a partial understanding of the task in front of us. The second is ineptitude – instances where we have the knowledge but we fail to apply it correctly.

But it’s not ignorance that leads to mistakes in today’s world. We have access to more and more information and our knowledge base is growing every day in every field. It’s the complexity of our world that is making it more difficult to deploy our knowledge predictably and routinely - like a weekly preprint or massive catalog. We need a strategy that builds on experience and takes advantage of the immense knowledge we all have in our brains, and in our hands, but also makes up for our inevitable human inadequacies

As the complexity of the challenges, problems, and tasks we face increases, we can’t just rely on memory or our “routine” to help us perform at the highest level. Gawande points out that, “[checklists] remind us of the minimum necessary steps and make them explicit. They not only offer the possibility of verification but also instill a kind of discipline of higher performance.”

Gawande offers some tips for building good checklists:

Make them precise.
They should be efficient, to the point, and easy to use even in the most difficult situations.
Do not try to spell out everything.
Provide reminders of only the most critical and important steps – the ones that even highly skilled professionals using them could miss.
Above all, make sure they are practical.


“…Under conditions of complexity, not only are checklists a help, they are required for success. There must always be room for judgment, but judgment aided – and even enhanced – by procedure.”  

I“We have an opportunity before us, not just in medicine, but in virtually any endeavor. Even the most expert among us can gain from searching out the patterns of mistakes and failures and putting a few checks in place. But will we do it? Are we ready to grab onto the idea?”,

Here are three suggestions on how we can implement checklists more effectively:

1. Identify areas of opportunity: What areas of your business could benefit from a checklist? How could you begin to reduce the number of mindless mistakes that lead to unhappy customers, failed execution, or even something far worse?

2. Check your ego: Throughout the entire book, ego more than anything seems to be the largest obstacle to implementing checklists. Remember, they are not intended to undermine your intelligence or ability. They are a tool to combat the increasingly complex nature of our lives.

3. Curate: Not everything requires a checklist, nor are they effective for every situation. The key is using them only in the most essential places and to be diligent about making them practical and precise.

Make a checklist!
Personally I phase in and out of check list usage . If you are going to be driven by adherence to a checklist then I am a true believer that said  check list must be curated.



Tuesday, September 4, 2018

A Man Called "Ove" . Fredrik Backman

A Man Called Ove.  Fredrik Backman


Ove (Golf Lassgård) is the quintessential angry old man next door. An isolated retiree with strict principles and a short fuse, who spends his days enforcing rules that only he cares about, and visiting his wife's grave, Ove has given up on life.
Unless you are simply opposed on principle to feeling uplifted by a mordantly humorous melodrama, you will dab your sad old eyes at "A Man...”
You’d be impressed with me if you realized how hard it is for me to read for more than 5 minutes at a time and crank out a book like in days gone by, quickly consumed. So I fidget and stir and hop round to stick together creating continuity, of a type. But I flew thru Ove.

Even though it made me cry at the end – I enjoyed it, recommend it, and say let’s discuss when you are done.

The novel definitely has insight into relationships and finding a match – catch this quote:
She liked talking and Ove liked keeping quiet; retrospectively Ove assumed that was what people meant when they said that people were compatible.”

Or who can’t love this kind of writing
 “Ove stares back at it with a suspicion normally reserved for a cat that has rung his doorbell with a Bible in its paws like a Jehovah Witness”

Death is a strange thing… Some need it’s constant presence to even be aware of its antithesis. Others become so preoccupied with it but they go into the waiting room long before it has announced its arrival. We fear it yet most of us fear more than anything that it may take someone other than ourselves. For the greatest fear of death is always that it will pass us by. And leave us there alone.”

One of the most painful moments in a persons life probably comes with the insight that an age has been reached when there is more to look back on than ahead."

“Acknowledgment – my father. Because I hope I am unlike you in the smallest possible number of ways. “(that’s also me speaking of my dad)

It is a bizarre odd book – very Scandinavian, very adapting to the changes that come with aging and death, very learning to embrace a wide array of “who is my neighbor” - Just what I like to read.

Thursday, August 30, 2018

Galileo's Daughter by Dava Sobe.

Galileo's DaughterA Historical Memoir of Science, Faith, and Love by Dava Sobe.


I picked up the book for two reasons. 1) Sobe wrote Longitude , several years ago which I enjoyed. 2) point of view of the gifted, scientific daughter was a different approach.

It turned out to be less about the daughter and more about Galileo. It spoke of his trial,  and  the supporting evidence of his genuine  interest in keeping his faith in God through his discoveries . Personally, I did not need another book about Galileo, so I skipped and jumped. Ok read,  but not great; I was looking for something different.

Saturday, August 11, 2018

The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down. by Anne Fadiman


The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down: A Hmong Child, Her American Doctors, and the Collision of Two Cultures. The first segment of the title describes epilepsy described in Hmong; the subordinate clause overviews the storyline – the conflict between the immigrant culture and the dominant institutions.


Brigham introduced me and I chose to read given 3 yrs intensive + 6 yrs active involvement with the Minnesota Laotian community; added upon with 4 years intense Haitians in Florida. Sherwin Nuland said of the account, "There are no villains in Fadiman's tale, just as there are no heroes. People are presented as she saw them, in their humility and their frailty--and their nobility." Its a tragedy of epic proportion. People who have life and death needs to successfully communicate never effectively succeed; instead they build fences where bridges are needed.


All who interact with differing cultures benefit from learning to listen with perspective of understanding the foundation of differences and the possibilities of commonalities.

Page 261

“If you can’t see that your own culture has its own set of interest emotions and biases how can you expect to be a successful with someone else’s culture”
If the first encounter between Lees and the doctors had asked a different set of questions and trust each other; results might’ve been different.
The following are examples of questions that might be extrapolated to other situations – not the exact same questions for yours.
1 – What do you call the problem
2 – What do you think has caused the problem
3 – Why do you think it started when it did
4 – What do you think this sickness does; how does it work
5 – How severe is the sickness will it have a short term and long term effect
6 – What kind of treatment do you think the patient should receive what are the most important result you hope she receives from the treatment
7- What are the chief problem is the sickness has caused
8 – What do you fear most about the sickness
Upon reflection I realized my first relevant experience went back to when I was 18-21. My first college roommate was a great guy from Calgary Alberta Canada. His family very much like mine - demographics, education, religion, financial and social orientation. He was definitely more like me than the other dorm freshmen from Idaho and Utah. With the latter there was a cultural gap but my perception of Canadians they were very much like me. So I assumed that most people in Quebec Canada will be like my roommate from Alberta Canada. Perception and my understanding of Canadians remembered experience in college burst when I had a Quebecois companion - we couldn’t be more different : raised in an orphanage, private Catholic school, very poor, uneducated and illiterate. Those externals were the tip of the iceberg of differences in culture and lifestyle. In my case uncovering my assumptions led to an entire fresh view of Quebecois and Canadians.

The book is from 1997, the lessons are too late for Lia and those Hmong among us then, but now? For you, and me, perhaps we can learn and improve how we interact, perceive, (judge?) but definitely accept and understand. Read the book if you need clear illustration of the issues, gaffes and gaps that can be created in cultures coming together.


Friday, July 13, 2018

Creative Quest. Questlove


Creative Quest. Questlove

I spent significant parts of my career leading, guiding, and directing creative resources and processes. It is where I found the “jazz” in a career of marketing as opposed to pursuing a legal career. As in most things I have done, once setting myself to the plow I have studied and prepared myself to be good at it; to have a comprehension enough to make a difference. This has led me to a variety of authors and books / essays on creative and the creative process. I believe creative process is like day planners – there are many approaches and plans but there is not a ONE and ONLY; what works for you is what works. There is no shortage of books and theories on creativity. You need to discover, create, curate the process that best works for you and leverage or ignore the others. That being said, its a book full of ideas and ‘tips”. (I hate the word ‘tips’. It diminishes the importance of an idea.) For me the book was meaningful if only to get me to the last chapter No End – Lifelongering / Persisting. Questlove’s take on enduring to the end.
"creativity is a lifelong endeavor. Practice may or may not be perfect, which is why you should never stop practicing."

And I had to read this because I love his name. It reminds me of CrossLove, one of the YM in Delray Beach. I have long been aware of Questlove, though it has only been of recent years that I have become aware of the breadth of his brilliance. I knew of his Hip Hop career, didn't know he was leading edge; knew of his cooking expertise and had even shared his book on cooking with Parker. His writing style isn't great litterateur but it is accessible, readable and effectively communicates. He speaks of old favorite creative starter processes like OppoScales and Start with the end in mind - Beginning with the newspaper article acknowledging the successful launch of XXX and Sticking to your guns. He brings new light to Making your environment reflective of your taste, Widen your circle, Seek out boredom and embrace it; Embrace the things that scare you and Reduce, Reuse, Recycle. Its worthy of a quick read, And if you have never read a book on the creative process – go find another flame and spark additional fires. Try The Six Thinking Hats of Creative Communication by Edward De Bono

With the help (or hindrance of) the online world, the brain is more a hunter- gatherer and less a farmer”.
Sometimes you hear from a company that a certain work doesn’t have an audience. That's not true. It has an audience ,,, its a matter of finding them.’
creativity is one of the few human endeavors where you can crash your plane and walk away from it”David Bowie.
Always stay within sight of healthy competition.”
when you lower your cognitive inhibitions, “more information enters into your conscious mind, which you can then tinker with and recombine. The result: creative ideas.” Harvard psychologist Shelley Carson
"copying, over covering, is always a valuable exercise.”
Healthy habits keep you connected to the source of your ideas but you should also keep at it when you are older well after you retired from whatever profession. “

How to maintain a youthful perspective
- Trying to eat well.
- Keeping the company younger people
- laugh
- Don’t stop going down a flight of stairs just because it hurts a little when to start stopping - you’re on your way to shutting down entirely
You have to keep going, you have to take the stairs even if they hurt you realizing it’s a long game rather than a short ...to understand the passage of time and give you perspective not only on your own work but on your own identity”
...Not acknowledge the ways in which age limits your move into the world”


It is about finding your own unique way of fitting into the continually repeating human experience nothing you do is new but you can still be new within that realization