Monday, June 13, 2016

The Light Between Oceans by L Stedman

….Knowing that the light will reappear
A powerful closing line to a moving book. What a love story! A story of pain, misdeeds and of redemption.
I struggled with the last third of the book, as the mire became deeper and muddier, for I did not foresee any resolution, any end of pain, any future, any redemption. So tonight since I couldn't sleep I decided to plunge forward, finish the read, even if it depressed me. 

I was surprised by the redemption of forgiving versus resenting, and seeing them be able to successfully find coping and a future in the midst of , or despite their pain and  through their trials. 
It's a hard , emotionally so, read. I'm surprised I did not bail and toss it - which would have been a shame?


Great quotes to ponder, all from the last 20 or so pages
"How can you just get over these things how do you do it ? I choose to he said. I can leave myself to rot in the past spend my time hating people for what happened , or I can forgive and forget. But it's not that easy; but it is so much less exhausting ;and you only have to forgive once to resent you have to do it all day every day. You have to keep remembering all the bad things.”  
“We always have a choice.”
“ There is no going back. There is no undoing what happened. I've learned the hard way that to have any kind of future you have to give up hope of ever changing your past.”
“ We put things right as well as we can that's all we can do. We have to live with things the way they are now”
“. .... A Droplet of nectar you taste for only a second...”
“ He watches the Ocean surrender to night , knowing that the light will reappear"

Worthy of the time spent reading and pondering its message.

Monday, June 6, 2016

The top five regrets of the dying by Bronnie Ware

The top five regrets of the dying by Bronnie Ware

The title does not attract me. My inclination would be to skip the book , however it came on recommendation -so . It is  a soft science self discovery look into finding meaning in life and in finding those key things one should take care of:
1-courage to live the life meant to have , not the life of others expections
-regardless of what others say or think
- it's about having the courage  to be you regardless

2-work with purpose and intent in simplicity not obsessive working hard
-The best way to make the most out of life is to appreciate the gift of it and not chose to be a victim

3- courage to express your real feelings no guilt

4-stay in touch with friends

5- Love myself to be happy find joy in the moment
- happiness is a choice
-in the freedom to choose what we focus on
-blessings come to me more when I'm in a place of gratitude and flow
- gratitude for every day along the way is the key to it acknowledging and enjoying happiness now . Not when the results come in or when you retire with this or that happens.
- have a heart that's open and smiling it's a good life
-cycles of life will bring challenging times
- need to find a place of self-love
- it is the heart that guides you to joy not the mind (Buddha commented "the mind knows no answers the heart knows no questions")

Finding joy

So how do you find joy in tumultuous and challenging times- when life happens:
Big view - those times when I am with Family- just one of them , or with several of them or with all of them . Each  of those are times when I find joy. I also find joy when my kids  getting together and they are  loving each other like recently in Wisconsin

In the temple - whether that's the weekly service as a worker or  when we attend the temple as patrons I find joy in the temple

Partaking of the  the sacrament - I know that should / can be weekly but in reality that just comes at times when I'm prepared to take the sacrament and I focus

Prayer again that could be daily but it is what happens when I focus and I ponder and I make it meaningful

Daily scripture study almost always is an  experience for me to find true joy

So even when things are hard I can find joy in a regular basis monthly weekly or daily. I can insert my day with joy of the spirit.

The book didn't go I there but my thoughts did . Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.






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Friday, May 27, 2016

Transatlantic a novel by Colum McCann

Transatlantic a novel 
By Colum McCann


Lovely with the tapestry of life in crossing from Ireland to America to Ireland and in the lives of the people from the inconsequential to the larger than life. Book covers historical events as well as famous figures as well as every day people, as only an engaging historically bent novel can. McCann's ability to tell a story keeps you intrigued and hungry for more of their lives and of their trials of their victories.

"... three iconic crossings are connected by a series of remarkable women whose personal stories are caught up in the swells of history."
It Is the occasional very crisp sentence that pleases me most when read a book from a true craftsman. every once in while he comes up with just a splendid sentence such as:
"Everyone jumping off their own ledges, sailing out into the middle of the air, developing patterns a flight on the way down." These visually rich phrases deliver .

I'm unsure if the book has a definitive 'point' to it. Though it brings to mind the meaning found in understanding one's family stories in context of world events - even when it is only a note.

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

John Taylor biography by Francis Gibbons

Mormon philosopher , Prophet of God indeed encapsulates this powerful faithful man.
His biography is an interesting insight to the challenges of the early saints and growth of the church. I've grabbed a few quotes that provide some of the breadt h of his thought. He was an early embrace r of the philosophy of find what is good and true in the world and circle it within the gospel.


John Taylor
By Francis Gibbons

The kingdom of God or nothing

Unblemished record loyal obedience to prophetic direction and his conviction that exaltation  is to be found only in submissive obedience to all of God's Commandments receive through or interpreted by the living Oracle


It is for us his fathers and mothers to go before the Lord and all humility  and call upon him and his peace may be in our hearts wherein we have done wrong confess that wrong and run and repair it as far as we possibly can and forever cultivate the spirit of peace and love

When you allow everybody to worship as they please? Certainly. What? If you knew they were in error ? Certainly. I would not wish to control the human mind, I will not control the actions of men, God does not do it, he leaves them to their own agency to combat the trials, temptations, adversities and evils of every kind that are in the world to which humanity is or can be incident. He puts within their reach, however certain principles and would like to lead them to himself if they would be led. if not, then does the very best with them that he can.

Want to be alive in the cause of education. We are commanded of the Lord to obtain knowledge; both by study and by faith and seeking it out of the best books

I do not desire affliction ... But if earthquake bellows, the lightings flash the thunders roll, and the powers of darkness are let loose and the spirit of evil is permitted to rage , and an evil influence is brought to bear ... and my life is put to the test; let it come for we are the saints of the most high God all is well all is peace all is right and will be within time and in eternity 






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Saturday, April 23, 2016

Orbiting the Giant Hairball

Orbiting the Giant Hairball A corporate fools guide to surviving with Grace
By Gordon Mackenzie

First the surprise as I go to write this review I look in the front of the book and find out when is printed in 1998. A new trend with me, that of reading older books never before read by me. Once again I find this book topical today as it was when is written. I'm feeling somewhat remorseful that I'm so late to coming to the reading.

David Baldwin has an apt summary, which I'm going to insert here, feeling lazy.
" could have been written yesterday. Its insights are timeless and always relevant.

This small volume is a roadmap for escaping the stifling bureaucracy of corporate
culture and achieving a state of creative achievement by “orbiting” the corporation.

As the author says himself, “hairball” is a disgusting term. But it is an appropriate
term for the mass of policies, procedures, rules, management layers, practices,
conformity, compliance and submission to the status quo that every organization
eventually and invariably becomes.

Every new policy or procedure or rule is a new hair in the hairball. Hairs in
organizations are never removed, they are always added. As the number of hairs
accumulates, so does the mass of the hairball. As in physics, as the mass of a body
increases, so does its gravitational pull.

The corporate organization, the hairball, begins to exert its own corporate gravity.
It is the nature of corporate gravity to suck everything and everyone into its mass,
which translates into corporate normalcy.

Orbiting is operating beyond the bounds of corporate normalcy. The corporate mind
set is to protect and repeat past successes. There is little room in corporate
normalcy for original thinking or primary creativity.

Orbiting is responsible creativity, vigorously exploring and operating beyond the
hairball of the corporate mind set, beyond accepted models, patterns or standards,
all the while remaining connected to the spirit of the corporate mission.

Now a few good quotes from the text itself
Orbiting is actively engaging in the opportunities and resources provided by the
organization without being sucked into the hairball. To orbit, one must be
continuously mindful of the corporate environment and always conscious of one’s
personal mission to be responsibly creative."

"... If you do follow your bliss you put yourself in a kind of track that has been there all the while waiting for you and the life you ought to be living is the one you're living "Joseph Campbell

  Need to find a balance being committed to the organization culture at the same time committing to the heart of the personally relevant goals of the organization and how you create your own unique contribution and be more than just a headcount. It takes courage, courage to cross boundaries, courage to admit it idiocy, courage to acknowledge impasse, courage be open up to being rescued.
 Things to do
Groping leave behind your habitual corporate cultures analytic explicit rational concrete goal  oriented linear reality and instead experience spontaneous playful holistic nonlinear creative energy

Freedom versus security
So:skydiving without a parachute is suicide
total freedom is suicide

And: holing up in the closet is vegetating
total security is vegetating

Start near security and move mindfully toward freedom

Coercion is a deterrent to creative a participation
And a workshop without creative participation is not a creative workshop at all but rather an exercise in cultural indoctrination

When we tease others about their performance we hold up a stop sign, and keeps them from sharing risking or growing. before you tease you should pause just a moment look deep inside yourself and see if you can understand your motivation and then reconsider are you  trying to stop that person ,belittle them or lift them up

Be careful of those things which foster isolation isolation brings atrophy decay fading away! engagement brings passion vision invention! Stay engaged

Orville Wright did not have a pilots license don't always wait for permission

Escape from habitual culture must always be temporary if you wish to be permitted back into that culture "yes you can go on and play but you must be home by dinner time"

Compassionate emptiness a state of nonjudgmental receiving- how do I listen?

To create we must let go:
Let go strategies that worked in the past
let go or biases the foundation of our illusions
 Let go of our grievances the root source of our victimhood
Let go of our so often denied fear of being found unlovable
Not rejecting but letting go open up yourself to new possibilities

If you go to your grave without painting your masterpiece, it will not get painted. No one else can paint it. Only you!


Friday, April 22, 2016

Where The Blue Begins

Where The Blue Begins
By Christopher Morley copyright 1922
To be honest I'm not sure how this arrived on my reading list. Morely is a fiction writer, an essayist, and  poetry writer of some acclaim but no great notoriety. I thought Brigham recommended it, but I was mistaken, he didn't. Nonetheless I got an inter-library loan of the book and quickly devoured it.



Reviews even say it may have been written as a child book or other types but I found this book to be a good philosophical read: compelling observation on society, family life, professional life and the self discovery of what one truly is searching out of life.

I started reading and gathering quotes but decided not to do that this time but just to read it and enjoy it. And that I did! Not everybody can write a book with the characters all being dogs. And for that matter I don't know if it adds value to the story to be dogs or people, a unique device. Glad I read it. And recommended to you if you like philosophy books with a slant on social commentary. And it seems relevant to me today in 2016 as it was in 1922 when he wrote it.

One quote I'll throw out there is how he describes discovering who his real self was "Another one of those numerous self-inflicted committed suicide that was the right idea to keep sloughing them off throwing overboard the unreal and factitious paring them down until he discovered the  genuine and in alienable creature" . reminds me a bit of CS Lewis's description of Eustice as a dragon peeling off his Dragon self and trying to find his real self inside. The challenge for all of us – discovering our true inner self and raison d'etre..

Friday, April 1, 2016

The Speech Writer

The speechwriter a brief education in politics by Barton Swaim

Had I remembered who Mark Sanford was - South Carolina's governor crazy 'gone missing ' - I might not of read the book.  this guy Brian was the communications officer and speechwriter for him.  I was interested in reading the book in terms of writing and writing styles and sustaining  process as a political speech writer. there are a number of  interesting insights,nothing breakthrough, but a quick easy read.

The governor understood building brand , defining his message and his key message points and in sticking to them. His speech writer bryan built the repertoire of content that reflected his governors positions and thoughts and approaches and style thus building and establishing the governors brand.

The book  was its most interesting upon  reaching its last seven pages where in we found the definition of the kind of men, like the governor who run for office who are politicians: "
Was he at  last pondering the ruin he created I doubt it… Men like him think of achievement and victory not a failure. And when they fail disastrously the first thought is not to repair the damage but to gauge how far it is to the next victory "

"Why do we trust men who have sought and obtained  high office by innumerable acts of vanity and  self will. They serve because they glory and receiving glory. Politicians maybe lauded when the right venerated when they're dead but they should never be trusted.  difference between their public and private persona... I believe you wanted to feel a deeper remorse he looked inside and it wasn't there all he found was more of himself... Politicians gain power by convincing us that they are wise and trustworthy... The claimant attention or his highest name is is they are every determine politicians I need to praise the finding the seriousness with people take the remarks gaze of the audience the way room falls silent when enters
. He May have good desires it's a desire it's not what drives him. What drives them is the thirst for glory. The public good as he understands it is a means to that end.


Contrasting to King Benjamin 

Mosiah 29:6 ccf
35 And he also unfolded unto them all the disadvantages they labored under, by having an unrighteous king to rule over them;

36 Yea, all his iniquities and abominations, and all the wars, and contentions, and bloodshed, and the stealing, and the plundering, and the committing of whoredoms, and all manner of iniquities which cannot be enumerated--telling them that these things ought not to be, that they were expressly repugnant to the commandments of God.


Mosiah 2
s suffered by the hand of the Lord that I should be a ruler and a king over this people; and have been kept and preserved by his matchless power, to serve you with all the might, mind and strength which the Lord hath granted unto me.

12 I say unto you that as I have been suffered to spend my days in your service, even up to this time, and have not sought gold nor silver nor any manner of riches of m
16 Behold, I say unto you that because I said unto you that I had spent my days in your service, I do not desire to boast, for I have only been in the service of God.

17 And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.
16 Behold, I say unto you that because I said unto you that I had spent my days in your service, I do not desire to boast, for I have only been in the service of God.

17 And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God


Not lipservice but that he's actually serving God. The –Measure of how people should live and how he should govern. Where is their heart where is their reward! 


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Monday, March 21, 2016

Inside The Magic Shop

I've been trying to improve the quality of my meditation and so after seeing his TED TALK, decided to read his book. An interesting personal journey of his and some insights.
Into The magic shop
By James r doty

Power of intention to change everything 
Alphabet of the heart 
Atonement baptism charity  
divine nature 
eternity
Forgiveness 
gratitude 
humility 
inspiration 
Jesus 
kindness 
love



Friday, August 14, 2015

H is for Hawk


Helen Macdonald’s ‘H Is for Hawk’


New York Times review states
"The premise of her memoir is simple: Macdonald loses her bearings after her beloved father’s sudden death. She retreats from the human world. She’s a poet, historian and longtime falconer, and for complicated reasons, she seizes upon a strange yet sublime prescription for what ails her: She will raise and train a young goshawk, a cur of a bird to some, notoriously difficult to tame. Bigger, “bulkier, bloodier, deadlier, scarier,” she says, than other hawks they are sometimes confused with."

The book is also a history and psyco analysis of t.h.white, how to raise a falcon, and her dealing with death, and she writes lovely prose. I enjoyed her writing first and then I became involved with the story.

I is remind him in the month book where she describes looking for the world through to buy two frame to capture it all and McDonald describes her father's approach to photography
"look through the viewfinder. Stops you being involved. Stops you being scared. You No longer possess a body to fall or fail; all that exist is a square and finally groundglass and the world seen through it,"

That allows you to be a watcher in being a watcher you can learn who you are and what you can be.

In dealing with her father's death she thought that to heal her hurt she need in the flee to the wild and that what you need to do was to turn to people and for holding other human hands wildness is not a panacea for the human soul too much in the air could corrode it  to nothing.

She cautions  against being a tourist in the world as opposed to been involved in the world and isolation can bring further isolation. That community brings healing: it is the place to heal a broken heart. " I must fight  always against  forgetting" truly a gospel axiom of telling us we need to remember !

You have to be patient. If there is something you want very much, you just have to be patient and wait.

Monday, August 3, 2015

On immunity an inoculation By Eola Biss



A well crafted , well thought out book, that reads almost like a collection of essays. She , while dealing with her own doubts , uncovers part of why people--privileged, educated people, no less--choose not to vaccinate their children, disregarding scientific evidence and social responsibility. 

She hooked me with her first metaphor of Achilles , and kept me from definition to definition. 
Definitely on the 'should read 'list . The following our conversation starters from her book:

Immunity is a myth the story suggest and no mortal can ever be made invulnerable. 

A trust – in the sense of valuable asset placed in the care of someone to whom it does not ultimately belong – captures more or less my understanding of what it is to have a child.

Heard immunity – thinking not in terms of how it affects a single body but also in terms of how it affects the collective body with community mass vaccination becomes far more effective than individual vaccination. Those of us who draw on collective immunity owe our health to our neighbors.

Their primary concern in other words was with people like them- risk groups. Vaccination works by listing the majority in the protection of the minority.

When we encounter information that contradicts our believes we tend to doubt the information not ourselves.

Metaphors of alternate medicine address our base anxieties when we feel bad we want something unambiguously good.

The purpose of heroic medicine was not so much to heal the patient as it was to produce a measurable and ideally dramatic effect for which the patient could be billed.

Refusing immunity the privilege 1% are sheltered from risk when they draw resources from the other 99%.

Paternalism is interference with the liberty of another for the purpose of promoting some good preventing some harm. Not always necessarily a bad thing.

The term conscientious objector, now associated primarily with war, originally referred to those who refused vaccination.

Think about the conscience is an inner voice to keep your actions in line with publicly defendable moral standards (which may shown the lack of conscience in today's society)

Stale metaphors reproduce stale thinking mixed metaphors confuse.

It Is essential to motherhood – we must live the questions our children raise for us.

Jean-Paul Sartre said "freedom is what you do with what's been done to you."

Community is shared space - a garden we tend together